|Martin Luther King Jr.|
By the time I got to high school, I still had not one African American in any of my classes. I had Hispanics , Pacific Islanders, and Oriental classmates, but no blacks. As far as being racist, I wasn't. I couldn't fathom the idea. Those that were a different race than me, blended well in my school and I never thought twice about the color of their skin.
Even after I moved out of my insulated community and to another state, I never felt any racial tensions. The African Americans I worked with were part of the workplace, like anybody else. In the 1990's, at the age of 22, I moved to Chicago and for the first time in my life, I experienced racial tensions. The worst thing was that it happened to me in reverse. My husband and I were riding our bikes with our baby in the bike trailer. An African American male called us "white honky" and told us to get out of his neighborhood. I have to admit, I was quite naive and didn't know there were neighborhoods for whites and separate ones for blacks. It was a rude awakening to racial tension in America. I thought racial hatred were a thing of the past. I was about to learn my first history lesson.
Since then, I have read various books and articles on racial inequality and I understand some of the animosity coming from that black man. Do I agree? No! I feel that my child innocence was a good thing and that the idea that it didn't matter what color of skin you had should always prevail. While my children grew up, I always allowed them to choose friends of all varieties. We never discussed skin color. I was happy when their classrooms were dotted with colors from both ends of the black and white spectrum, with everything in between. I taught them they should judge a person on character and nothing else. I once heard one of my sons telling a racist joke. I was mad and told him it was inappropriate and why. He hadn't even thought about it, but now he does.
If we lived in the South, I think this lesson would have greater significance. Since we don't, I feel a great responsibility to teach my children about history and how important it is to never let bad historical events happen again. I recently received a book about the 1963 Birmingham Children's March. What a wonderful opportunity to learn about brave black children fighting against racial inequality. For the innocence of children everywhere, I hope the message continues on. This is why I support Black History Month.